This is a teen advice page. my goal is to help teens out with any issues or situations that they are in or answer any questions they might have. Feel free to ask questions, give topic ideas or just write us. I’m here to helpI Understand.Tumblr (3.0; @iamyoursupport)http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/anyone need any advice or any help? i'm here to help everyone who needs it, no topic is off limits, no judgement and no ignoring. I will answer every question and respond to everyone's message. no limits on what you want to talk about. ask, vent, question, and just talk. i'm here to listen. i care<3http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/39695127434http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/39695127434Fri, 04 Jan 2013 18:48:57 -0500adviceaskanxietyannorexiaschoolspeak upself-harmSuicidedepressiondatingfamilyfriendsgaylesbianlgbtlifelovebullyingBisexualbipolarbulimiacuttingcyberbullyingwritingeating disorderrelationshipsteensteen issuesteentrustanyone need any advice or any help? i'm here to help everyone who needs it, no topic is off limits, no judgement and no ignoring. I will answer every question and respond to everyone's message. no limits on what you want to talk about. ask, vent, question, and just talk. i'm here to listen. i care<3http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/37427185725http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/37427185725Fri, 07 Dec 2012 17:04:47 -0500adviceaskanxietyannorexiaschoolspeak upself harmdepressionSuicidedatingfamilyfriendslesbianlifelovebullyingBisexualbipolarbulimiacuttingcyberbullyingwritingeating disorderrelationshipsteensteen issuesteentrusttransgenderI don't know how to be strong anymore. I grew up without a father, all I have had was my mom. I love her so much and she doesn't care. I just want her to love me. Some days its awesome we have a great time.. but mostly she yells at me and tells me i'm selfish, worthless, a cunt, she'd rather be dead. Stuff like that. It tears me apart. If your own mom thinks you are worthless then you have to be? I dont understand why she does this. I want to die. I just want to be gone. No one will listen to me<p>I am soo so very sorry about that. It doesn’t mean you’re worthless not at all. You’re not worthless you deserve the world and to be treated like the world. Maybe your mom doesn’t see it but that doesn’t mean it’s not true. She could love you she just doesn’t know how to show it some people don’t some people don’t like showing their feelings. It doesn’t make you any less of a person than someone else. You have a purpose in life. You need to fight, show your mom you’re better than what she thinks show her how amazing you truly are. If she doesn’t see it, it doesn’t make you worthless or anything I promise you you’re not. I hope you believe me that you are truly a special person and you deserve to life a long and happy life. Stay strong, continue to fight and prove everyone wrong because you are a great person. I hope for the best for you. I am always here if you need anything at all. I promise I care and I think you’re a great person although I don’t exactly know you. Best of luck<3</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36626970246http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36626970246Mon, 26 Nov 2012 19:27:26 -0500Hello, im a bit worried because im 17 and i havent had a period in 10 months, ive been diagnosed with bulimia, but have been in recovery for a few months and put on quite a lot of weight but i still havent had one, do you think i should go to the doctors? or do you think i might just sort itself out? sorry to ask<p>Don’t apologize it’s fine don’t worry about the question no limits. I think you should definitely go to the doctors. That’s definitely something to be concerned about. I wouldn’t take it likely, not that it’s anything serious but just because it’s suppose to happen monthly I’d definitely call your doctor</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36626628316http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36626628316Mon, 26 Nov 2012 19:23:09 -0500anyone need any advice or any help? i'm here to help everyone who needs it, no topic is off limits, no judgement and no ignoring. I will answer every question and respond to everyone's message. no limits on what you want to talk about. ask, vent, question, and just talk. i'm here to listen. i care<3http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36552581379http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36552581379Sun, 25 Nov 2012 19:18:02 -0500adviceanxietyaskanorexiaschoolSuicideself harmspeak updatingdepressionfamilyfriendsgayHelplovelifelesbianburningBisexualbulimiabullyingbipolarcuttingcyberbullyingwritingrelationshipseating disorderteenstrustteenAs a child I was sexually abused by a family member and then a family friend. I'm 18 now and I've (or so I thought) been over it all for a few years now. I recently gave my virginity to my boyfriend and it's making me feel disgusting/guilty. If I even cuddle with him now I feel awful. I love him and I don't regret giving him my virginity, so I don't know what to do about this. He knows nothing about my past sexual abuse either. What should I do?<p>Well, first I want to say I’m soo very sorry for what you have gone through in your past no one deserves that at all. I understand why you might feel guilty or disgusting. It’s not your fault you feel that way at all. If you trust him my advice is to tell him what you went through as a child and be honest with him about what happened. That’s the best thing and I think that it might make you feel better to because you will get this burden off your shoulders. I understand why you might be hesitant to tell him but if you love him and he loves you and you trust him I think you can tell him. It’s not your fault what happened to you, it’s not your fault at all. I don’t want you to feel like its your fault. I really hope for the best for you. I am always here if you need anything else. I hope this helped you best of luck to you<3</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36469873902http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36469873902Sat, 24 Nov 2012 19:56:47 -0500I am worried that if I recover from Anorexia that people won't 'care' for me as a person anymore. That once I am better that strangers won't think I am sexy anymore and I think I will become fat and alone forever. That I will be ugly. What do I do?<p>Well first off, I think the best thing for you to do is recover from anorexia because it’s not healthy for you anyways. I don’t think you be alone forever at all people will still care about you and still think you’re sexy. As long as you are healthy that’s the best option for you because the best thing is to be healthy. Health is first in any situation</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36469147171http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36469147171Sat, 24 Nov 2012 19:46:15 -0500Anyone need any advice or any help? i'm here to help everyone who needs it, no topic is off limits, no judgement and no ignoring. I will answer every question and respond to everyone's message. no limits on what you want to talk about. ask, vent, question, and just talk. i'm here to listen. i care<3http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36467239157http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36467239157Sat, 24 Nov 2012 19:18:52 -0500adviceanxietyaskanorexiaschoolSuicidespeak upself harmdatingdepressionfamilyfriendsgayHelplovelifelesbianburningBisexualbulimiabullyingbipolarcyberbullyingcuttingwritingeating disorderrelationshipsteenstrustteenI dont even know if this can be given advice but i am freaking out. six days after my bf gave me a promise ring he dumped me. I accused him of doing it for the new girl at our work and he swore he didnt want anything to do with her. I found out today that they are in fact together. it hasnt been that long and I know he probably waited 2 seconds after we broke up to be with her. I didnt think it would hurt when i found out but it really fucking hurts. i cant stop thinking about it.<p>Wow I am so very sorry. That is unbelievable. But you deserve so much better than him. I understand you are hurting right now I really do and I understand why, you have a reason to be hurt. But in reality you do honestly deserve better than him. It’s okay to be hurt, it’s okay to cry and be upset, it is 100% okay. Don’t hate on yourself because of what he did to you. What he did was horrible. I’m sure you are beautiful and I know you deserve better than that. Keep your head up honey. Cry it out! Don’t worry you will find the right guy for you but right now you need to focus on yourself and put yourself back together again. But again I’m so very very sorry about what happened. I’m here if you need anything else <3</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36405373902http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36405373902Fri, 23 Nov 2012 23:25:33 -0500I'm online now if anyone needs to talk or needs advice on anything, no limitations and no judgement, I will never ignore anyone so allow me to help you through it, no judgements or anything. I'm here for all of you. http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36404567073http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36404567073Fri, 23 Nov 2012 23:12:45 -0500adviceanxietyaskanorexiaschoolSuicidespeak upself harmdatingdepressionfamilyfriendsgaylovelifelesbianpersonalteenstrustteentransgenderteen issuesrelationshipseating disorderwritingcuttingcyberbullyingburningBisexualbulimiaI want to apologize that I haven&#8217;t been online in some time. I have been crazy busy. I...<p>I want to apologize that I haven&#8217;t been online in some time. I have been crazy busy. I literally wake up go to school, come home for a half hour for lunch go to work, come home eat, shower and do homework and maybe sleep. I feel bad that I haven&#8217;t been available for all of you. I care about everyone of my followers and even people who don&#8217;t follow me. I will try to do my best to keep up and help everyone who needs it. I promise I will answer every question, I will respond to everyone to the best of my ability. Some are harder than others but that doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;m not going to try to help you out. You can ask me anonymously or we can have a private conversation which ever you prefer. I am always hear for every one of you. No matter what the question is or what you need advice on I will be hear to help you out as much as I possibly can. I promise you that I am here and I honestly truly care about you. Don&#8217;t hesitate to ask me anything that is on your mind or anything at all. I&#8217;m going to respond. It may not be right away but I do promise I am going to try harder to sign on at least once a day. If you want you can also message me and ask me for my facebook or my personal tumblr if you would like. I&#8217;m on facebook more often than tumblr since it is on my phone and the notifications pop up. Anything you need I promise I am here for you all. Best of wishes to everyone, I hope everyone had an awesome Thanksgiving and are doing well. Message me if you need anything at all </p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36404001320http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36404001320Fri, 23 Nov 2012 23:03:52 -0500adviceanxietyaskanorexiaschoolspeak upSuicideself harmdepressiondatingfamilyfriendsgaygay marriagegay rightsgay prideHelplovelifelesbianlgbtburningBisexualbulimiabullyingbipolarcuttingcyberbullyingwritingeating disorderOkay so, I know that i'm pretty, but my roommate is much prettier, and I feel like whenever we are together guys always go for her, like there could be two guys and they'd both want her. I just feel like there will never be a time where a guy would choose me over her, but guys look over me all the time for her. I have no resentment against her, I'm just afraid i'll meet a guy that i'll like and he'll want her instead. I feel useless & unattractive around her, and very insecure, What am i to do?<p>Sorry it took me awhile to answer, I’ve been crazy busy. But, You need to tell yourself you’re beautiful. You need to list all your good qualities and keep telling yourself that’s what you are. Be confident in the skin you’re in. Everyone is different and there is a reason for that. You are beautiful in your own unique way. It doesn’t make you useless or unattractive. You will find a guy who will love you for who you are. There is someone out there for everyone. I guarantee you that you will find a guy that will love you and will tell you how beautiful you truly are. Look in the mirror every day, morning and night and tell yourself “I am beautiful” and name every quality that you can think of at that very moment. Best of luck to you<3 I’m here if you need anything else.</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36403478541http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36403478541Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:55:47 -0500ok so i need major help. i am in a relationship, and he loves me very much, but i can never feel good about myself. i deleted my last blog because i'd see all these skinny girls with pretty hair and big eyes and know thats not me at all, and i would end up hating myself. i want to do this because my mother knew how hard of a battle this has been for me, and shes dying of cancer. id like to feel good about myself so she can feel better about leaving, that i will be ok.<p>Well, if he loves you the way you are than you are perfect. There’s no need to change how you look or who you are just because of some people that come up on your dashboard. Everyone is built differently. We are all built differently for a reason. We are all unique, whether it’s our personality or our body type. I’m sure you’re are beautiful just the way you are. Your mom and your boyfriend love you so very much and I know they want you to love yourself as much as they love you because you are perfect just the way you are. No matter what size you are, you’re beautiful. The thing that matters most is what’s on the inside and the people you have in your life who love you for the way you are. My advice to you that I has helped me a lot in the past is look in the mirror every morning and every night and say to yourself “I am beautiful” five times every morning and every night until you feel it in yourself. I am almost positive you’re beautiful the way you are. Best of luck to you <3 I’m here if you need anything else</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36403215244http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36403215244Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:51:43 -0500anyone need any advice or any help? i'm here to help everyone who needs it, no topic is off limits, no judgement and no ignoring. I will answer every question and respond to everyone's message. no limits on what you want to talk about. ask, vent, question, and just talk. i'm here to listen. i care<3http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36376015901http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/36376015901Fri, 23 Nov 2012 16:15:36 -0500adviceanxietyaskanorexiaschoolspeak upSuicideself harmdepressiondatingfamilyfriendsgayHelplovelifelesbianburningBisexualbullyingbulimiabipolarcuttingcyberbullyingwritingeating disorderrelationshipsteenstrustteenOkay, so Its really hard for me to wrap my head around society right now. Like, I'm supposed to be okay with the fact that most guys would rather have sex with me than be in a relationship with me? How do I live with the fact that mostly everyone is having no-strings-attached relationships, and living in a fuck-first, ask questions later world as if its normal. I cannot have sex with someone as if its nothing. But it seems like this is the only way relationships are happening. Am I the weird one<p>No, you shouldn’t be okay with that fact because that is not okay. You are definitely not the weird one because I totally agree with you. You shouldn’t have to live with that fact. If a guy only wants sex with you he isn’t worth your time. You deserve a guy who wants every part of you, wants you for who you are as a person not how you look or anything to do sexually. Yes sex can be in a relationship but it shouldn’t be the whole relationship because can’t be the foundation of a relationship. IT’s not really what makes a relationship. I agree with you. Therefore don’t settle for someone who only wants sex from you because you deserve so much better than that</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/35615135680http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/35615135680Mon, 12 Nov 2012 22:30:07 -0500Is it okay, in your opinion, for a high school junior to date a freshman? I'm sixteen, and she'll be fifteen in a few months.<p>Yes i think that is fine</p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/35520728553http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/35520728553Sun, 11 Nov 2012 18:18:20 -0500erm yep we have but im still unsure if im a virgin because it wasn't with a guy x<p>you’re only a virgin if you haven’t broken your hymen you’d know if you did. just because its not with a guy doesn’t mean your a virgin. </p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34997680508http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34997680508Sun, 04 Nov 2012 14:30:39 -0500hello, im so embarrassed asking this but im not sure of the answer, im a 17 year old female who is in a relationship with another girl, this is the first relationship i've had, and i was wondering if im still a virgin, i know this sounds so stupid but im really not sure, sorry to ask x<p>well it’s not stupid no question is stupid or off limits so i don’t mind. but i have to ask have you had sex yet? </p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34595397327http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34595397327Mon, 29 Oct 2012 18:38:24 -0400Does anyone needs help, advice, or answers I'm here for everyone I'm here to listen to anyone who needs it. I'm here to talk you through whatever you need. I will do everything I can to answer and help you to the best of my ability i will never ignore anyone I will answer everyone. So please allow me to help you. There are no limits to what you can ask or talk about. I promise I will not judge you and I'll never ignore.http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34453382826http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34453382826Sat, 27 Oct 2012 21:00:15 -0400adviceanxietyaskanorexiaSuicideschoolself harmdepressiondatingspeak upfamilyfriendsgayHelplovelifelesbianburningBisexualbulimiabullyingbipolarcuttingcyberbullyingwritingrelationshipseating disorderteenstrustteenHi there I was wondering if you could help me, I'm actually really depressed right now and alot of suicide thoughts are going through my head, reason I think it's because I'm worthless school problems I'm a senior in hs and im also dealing with family/home problems and I don't know how to deal with it.;( im a really shy person, I'm scared of people I'm scared to go out on the real world;( I didn't have a happy childhood and my past is really affecting me bad... I am confused please help thaNks<<p>I think the best thing for you to do is try talking to a teacher/school counselor not saying that I cannot help you because I will do my best to do so but I think having someone to talk to face to face and someone who really knows you is the best solution. But i understand you’re dilemma right now. The real world is a scary place yes, but it’s nothing to be afraid of it truly isn’t because we all have to start some where we all have to join the real world some time some where so people are very understanding if you think so or not.I know why it can be scary and why you are scared but just know it’s normal to feel that way. You;re not worthless I don’t think you are at all. We all have a purpose, we are all worth it whether you believe it or not you are worth it 100%. I’m sorry you’re going through so much right now I truly am and if you need it I am here for you always 100% best of luck <3 </p>http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34334763462http://iamyoursupport.tumblr.com/post/34334763462Thu, 25 Oct 2012 21:44:48 -0400