Anonymous asked: I don't know how to be strong anymore. I grew up without a father, all I have had was my mom. I love her so much and she doesn't care. I just want her to love me. Some days its awesome we have a great time.. but mostly she yells at me and tells me i'm selfish, worthless, a cunt, she'd rather be dead. Stuff like that. It tears me apart. If your own mom thinks you are worthless then you have to be? I dont understand why she does this. I want to die. I just want to be gone. No one will listen to me
I am soo so very sorry about that. It doesn’t mean you’re worthless not at all. You’re not worthless you deserve the world and to be treated like the world. Maybe your mom doesn’t see it but that doesn’t mean it’s not true. She could love you she just doesn’t know how to show it some people don’t some people don’t like showing their feelings. It doesn’t make you any less of a person than someone else. You have a purpose in life. You need to fight, show your mom you’re better than what she thinks show her how amazing you truly are. If she doesn’t see it, it doesn’t make you worthless or anything I promise you you’re not. I hope you believe me that you are truly a special person and you deserve to life a long and happy life. Stay strong, continue to fight and prove everyone wrong because you are a great person. I hope for the best for you. I am always here if you need anything at all. I promise I care and I think you’re a great person although I don’t exactly know you. Best of luck<3
Anonymous asked: Hello, im a bit worried because im 17 and i havent had a period in 10 months, ive been diagnosed with bulimia, but have been in recovery for a few months and put on quite a lot of weight but i still havent had one, do you think i should go to the doctors? or do you think i might just sort itself out? sorry to ask
Don’t apologize it’s fine don’t worry about the question no limits. I think you should definitely go to the doctors. That’s definitely something to be concerned about. I wouldn’t take it likely, not that it’s anything serious but just because it’s suppose to happen monthly I’d definitely call your doctor
Anonymous asked: As a child I was sexually abused by a family member and then a family friend. I'm 18 now and I've (or so I thought) been over it all for a few years now. I recently gave my virginity to my boyfriend and it's making me feel disgusting/guilty. If I even cuddle with him now I feel awful. I love him and I don't regret giving him my virginity, so I don't know what to do about this. He knows nothing about my past sexual abuse either. What should I do?
Well, first I want to say I’m soo very sorry for what you have gone through in your past no one deserves that at all. I understand why you might feel guilty or disgusting. It’s not your fault you feel that way at all. If you trust him my advice is to tell him what you went through as a child and be honest with him about what happened. That’s the best thing and I think that it might make you feel better to because you will get this burden off your shoulders. I understand why you might be hesitant to tell him but if you love him and he loves you and you trust him I think you can tell him. It’s not your fault what happened to you, it’s not your fault at all. I don’t want you to feel like its your fault. I really hope for the best for you. I am always here if you need anything else. I hope this helped you best of luck to you<3
Anonymous asked: I am worried that if I recover from Anorexia that people won't 'care' for me as a person anymore. That once I am better that strangers won't think I am sexy anymore and I think I will become fat and alone forever. That I will be ugly. What do I do?
Well first off, I think the best thing for you to do is recover from anorexia because it’s not healthy for you anyways. I don’t think you be alone forever at all people will still care about you and still think you’re sexy. As long as you are healthy that’s the best option for you because the best thing is to be healthy. Health is first in any situation
Anonymous asked: I dont even know if this can be given advice but i am freaking out. six days after my bf gave me a promise ring he dumped me. I accused him of doing it for the new girl at our work and he swore he didnt want anything to do with her. I found out today that they are in fact together. it hasnt been that long and I know he probably waited 2 seconds after we broke up to be with her. I didnt think it would hurt when i found out but it really fucking hurts. i cant stop thinking about it.
Wow I am so very sorry. That is unbelievable. But you deserve so much better than him. I understand you are hurting right now I really do and I understand why, you have a reason to be hurt. But in reality you do honestly deserve better than him. It’s okay to be hurt, it’s okay to cry and be upset, it is 100% okay. Don’t hate on yourself because of what he did to you. What he did was horrible. I’m sure you are beautiful and I know you deserve better than that. Keep your head up honey. Cry it out! Don’t worry you will find the right guy for you but right now you need to focus on yourself and put yourself back together again. But again I’m so very very sorry about what happened. I’m here if you need anything else <3