I Understand.

I’m online now if anyone needs to talk or needs advice on anything, no limitations and no judgement, I will never ignore anyone so allow me to help you through it, no judgements or anything. I’m here for all of you.

I’m online now if anyone needs any advice or needs to vent. I’m here to listen no limits no judgements from me.

Anonymous asked: Hi, ive been feeling so sad for a few months, my mum doesnt understand and says she hates me because im not doing well at school, i know that i could never talk to her about anything. I've been having suicidal thoughts recently. i think i may have depression? I dont know who to turn to?

The best advice I can give you is to go to an adult that you can trust, who you feel comfortable talking to, know that will support you and who will be as helpful as they can. Anytime you are feeling suicidal you must go to a friend or an adult. It’s not something you should keep to yourself for your own safety. Just make sure you feel comfortable talking to them. Be safe and take care. Best of luck <3

Anonymous asked: Your actually amazing, the adivce you gave me has helped a lot, and slowly, I think I'm getting better. Thank you so much

You’re welcome. I’m glad I helped. I’m always here

I’m online now if anyone needs to talk or needs advice on anything, no limitations and no judgement, I will never ignore anyone so allow me to help you through it, no judgements or anything. I’m here for all of you.

So, I just wanted to say that I have noticed a lot of obscure and cruel anon messages to people telling the person to kill themselves. It seriously shocked me that people have the nerve to say that to someone especially saying it to people who are open and honest about the fact they have a problem. Stop and think before you feel the need to tell anyone to kill themselves. You have no idea what people go through on a daily basis and you don’t know if them receiving that message will be there last minute alive. Honestly, stop being so cruel to one another it’s really not necessary. This probably is lame- but if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say it at all. Keep those comments to yourself. You don’t know what that person has done or been through. You don’t know what they might do or could do. Those words could very well be the last thing they will see. Therefore, before you decide to message someone and tell them to kill themselves, think about what you might be doing to that person. There really is no need for that. Very disappointed in people. Grow up and Think about what you’re doing.

Anonymous asked: I've been bulimic for a year and a bit, and ive kept it to myself because im scared what people will think, some of my friends self-harm so i think they might understand.. but i dont know, so who to tell?! please please help

I would tell one person you feel the most comfortable, best connection and know will support you. Even then be careful because I know from experience some people will still be taken back by it. So when you tell them just say “I think I might have a problem.” Don’t start off saying you have one that will probably scare them away. Just make sure the person you tell is someone who you can trust 100%, someone who will understand, one who will be there for you and just the one who you feel most comfortable with because comfort is what you need. You need someone who will comfort you and support you, not pressure you into eating and checking your every move. Just be cautious. My best wishes, be safe, and just know you’re beautiful. <3 I’m here if you need anything else

Anonymous asked: Do you answer every question you receive?

I do

Anonymous asked: summer of 2010, i weighed 162 pounds.i was so depressed and i hated everything about my body. when school started last year, i started eating less and less, to the point where i only let myself eat one really small meal like every other day. by summer, i had lost 40. then i realized what i was doing, &how bad it was getting, so i just sort of willed myself to start eating. recently i noticed that i gained it all back, and stopped eating all over again. i know its bad, but i dont know what to do.

I know it must be hard you don’t have to stop eating, you shouldn’t care bout your weight. I know it’s not easy to not care about it. But, you shouldn’t worry what the scale says, worry about if you’re healthy and if you are happy. You’re beautiful no matter what you’re weight or size is. You are truly beautiful just know that keep telling yourself that you are beautiful. Focus on what makes you happy and keeps you healthy. Don’t stop eating, don’t let yourself worry so much about what you eat. Just make sure you’re eating healthy that’s really all you can do. Just stay healthy and just make sure that you are happy

Anonymous asked: Recently my boyfriend and I broke up after dating for a year and a half and I just recently moved out and back home 800 miles away to my parents. I felt as though I gave so much in the relationship it wasn't equal, I wasn't treated special and what finally made me move was he got angry and blew up screaming at me and throwing all my clothes on the floor screaming at me to get out all bc I went to the club..Well now he's telling me it will change and won't stop asking for me to move back. Advice?

Honestly,you need to be with someone who treats you like amazingly. The way you should be treated. Be with someone who you feel so comfortable with and the one that accepts you for who you are. You deserve to be treated like the amazing person that you are. You don’t deserve to be treated badly you really don’t. Follow your heart but also listen to your mind.